I'm so pissed off! I took my cat Iro to go get neutered. So, now he is neutered. My fiance promised me he would be nice to our cat Iro. This is what happened. Iro is recovering from his surgery so he is in pain and is meowing. The vet told me is going to out of it after the surgery. So, I told my fiance to leave him alone and that Iro is going to out of it and that he promised to be nice. So, I'm went to sleep and I was disturbed by the sound of water running. Thinking on my fiance is taking a shower, so he can go to work. So, all of the suddenly, I heard this huge wham! So, I jumped out of bed and asked him not happened. He tells me,"I never being nice to that cat again! He growled at me when I tried to give him food!" I told him, " Iro is in pain from the neutering and needs time to heal. Our other cat,Zola, has been in trying to get a look at the his missing manhood. So, Iro is a little annoyed. Iro is a big pussy cat, he rather flee than fight. So, I just so angry that my fiance is acting like this when he promised to leave Iro alone. Iro is scare of people so when I ignored him he wants to be near me more. Not paying attention to cats in an open invitation to want attention but it also tell them "I'm not a threat". Is me being angry justified?