So.. I'm basically trying to get over my martial arts instructor.. i've thought about quitting but i really LOVE the art that I practice... but the only way i can get over him is if i don't see him... and it is not a one-sided thing.. we both revealed to each other our affection but it's just that i have my own problems and i don't want it to proceed anywhere further and also the fact that he always hurts me badly so now i am very determined to get over him.. he's been IMing me asking me when i'm gonna go back to train but i've been ignoring all his IMs and his approaches.. what do i do???