I'm upset and need to vent please help?

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Am I a spoiled brat ?
I have had people tell me on here that I am a spoiled brat, and wanted your opinion.

I had a party while my parents were gone and my dad said Mario (also a police officer) and family friend would come and check on me I didn't believe my dad but sure enough he did come and I was drunk it was bad, and I REALIZE I made a mistake.

I'm soo upset now my dad came home a couple of nights ago after work, and started screaming at me and was REALLY pissed about everything, and To make it worse, I started screaming at him and he grounded me until NOVEMBER . He didn't leave so I pushed him and that really got him angry and he just radioed one of his co-workers. I also told him to **** off which made him more pissed off. I want to be close to my dad like I used to be.

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I only told him to **** off because He was screaming at me and I got into a lot of trouble and was upset.
I'm venting because I got into trouble and I don't think it's fair.
 
been there, done that. Stop doing things that your parents tell you not to do. Trust me, you will grow out of this phase of your life, its a part of growing up. Apologize to your dad and say you know you were wrong. Just stick to the rules and you guys will be good :)
 
yeah, that's not cool. Your dad warned you and you didn't care... honestly? November is a good amount of time
 
You are a spoiled brat. You keep acting this way, and you're going to wind up locked up, and your dad is just going to leave you there to rot for a while.

Do you have any idea what kind of human debris your father has to deal with on a daily basis? He's strict with you because he cares about you and doesn't want you to wind up like some of the scum he sees all the time, or like one of their victims.

You need to grow up, act right and respect him. Trust me on this, you will look back some day and will be glad you did.
 
I don't see where your question is a survey or a poll, but I'll take a crack at your question.

I'm glad you were caught in the act! How long would you have continued this behavior otherwise? Now you have the perfect opportunity to turn things around. At least you admitted you made some poor choices.

It's not a good idea to cuss at your parents or to hit or shove them. Of course this is only going to escallate the problem.

Grounded til November, huh? I hope he stands his ground on that. Maybe that sounds mean-sprited, but a good parent keeps his or her word, and does not back down.

You can't change things overnight. It's going to take some time for things to cool off and blow over. Wait for the dust to settle, and then work at rebuilding your trust between you and your dad, a little bit at a time. When you feel things have cooled down enough to have a civil conversation with him, invite him to talk to you about what happened. Hopefully he will grant you time to tell him your side of the story as well. Hopefully the two of you can call a truce, learn from this, and move on.

I can't answer your question as to whether or not you are a brat. Only you can answer that. If you think that you are one, or if you think that you are not, you are probably right! It's not what we think that matters, it's what YOU think. Hopefully the purpose of your question on here wasn't to gain sympathy and have someone go "Awww..... poor baby." Take responsibility for your actions. Admit your mistakes, learn from them, pay the piper when necessary, and then move on.
 
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