The inlaws every year want us and our 2 kids to go on vacation with them. We have never went due to finances. They also invite their 2 other adult kids and spouses along. They want to go to Disney World this year. I am the only one working full time in the house and he goes to school and works part time. Inlaws' adult kids make great money and are either are childless or only have one (that is babysat for free by the grandparents.) I like to take a smaller, cheaper vacation each year. They want us to go and pressure us even with the obvious financial situation, they just don't care. Everyone pays their own way. I felt bad getting a little snippy with them because they just aren't getting it. I think since they babysit the one grandkid for free, and the other adult son lived with the parents until he was 27 that they could offer to help pay for some of it. Hubby moved out at 19 and he has never asked them for anything. Am I being unreasonable?