Insane situation with a stripper I met at a party.?

Steve

Active member
So I went to what I thought was a standard surprise b-day party with a friend of mine across town for a girl I didn't know. While I was at the party some other people showed up, one of them being a really hot girl, which I later found out was a stripper. She dragged me into the bathroom to ask me a "question" and we started making out. During the make-out session she tells me she just got out of a 3 year relationship with her ex-fiance and that she birthed a kid which regrettably died at 7 months. At this point I am wondering if I am on a reality television show, but its actually real, which is kind of disturbing. Anyways, my friend and I have to leave the party because my friend had to work in the morning.

I don't hear from her for a couple of days, but she calls me up a few days later telling me that "she's not looking for a relationship, but she is going out with guys to have a good time, but not doing anything naughty." At this point, I am so deep in the rabbit hole of confusion, I really have no clue what is going on. This girl is a stripper, but she isn't looking to do anything naughty? Anyways, she planned a date with me to go out at night this coming Tuesday. I really don't know what to expect, and I am still swirling in confusion.

Anyone have anything they'd like to say by way of advice?
 

PaulD

Member
Not all strippers are dirty like that. She is obviously rebounding, and that's what you are, and that's ok. Go out with her, have a good time, don't expect a relationship as she said, but just enjoy yourself and her company. Don't be surprised if she loses interest as soon as the next richer, better looking guy comes along. Lastly, don't get attached because you'll be in for a rollercoaster ride. Oh, and play it cool and I bet you'll get lucky. Have fun with this one
 
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