Interested in a 'Friends with Benefit' relationship with a guy that I met

lalalayma

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through a friend? I met this guy through a friend, when a bunch of us decided to go clubbing together. At first we were just talking casually, but once we entered the club, we started making out after talking together for a while. He was with me the whole time, he helped me take care of my friends who were wasted, and was with me until I went home. He asked for my number and told me that he wanted to meet up with me the next day, and so we did. I remembered him telling me that his to-be-girlfriend was going to come visit him in two days, so he would have a girlfriend in two days.

We hung out together for a day, and he treated me like I was his girlfriend the entire day. We held hands, ate together, made out... he was very respectful and did not do anything I was not comfortable with, and he was always making sure to ask me whenever he tried to do something. He asked me if I wanted to come over to his house, but I said no because I didn't plan on having sex with him.

His girlfriend is going to come over and stay here for 2 weeks, so he said he would get in touch with me after she leaves. He's EXACTLY my type, and going on a date with him helped me get over my horrible break-up with my rudeass ex. He said he wanted to continue this relationship with me after his girlfriend went home, because we have chemistry for sure and we both really like each other, and because our personalities are really similar. After spending a day together talking, we pretty much know a LOT about each other's family, friends, past relationships and life experiences. No I haven't fallen for him, I don't think I will, but I am lusting for him. We both had an amazing time... This happened when we were both back home from college, so any relationship that we have would be long distance. I know if I continue this relationship, I would be helping him cheat on his girlfriend. But if he's willing to continue it, I don't mind. I don't want to be in a serious relationship for a while, I just want someone that I could hang out with for a day with no strings attached and do thing when we feel like it. Besides, their relationship started by his girlfriend cheating on her ex with him... I don't plan on telling anyone about this. Do you think it'll work? I can swear that I won't fall for him and he won't fall for me.
Forgot to add; another reason why I think this guys is okay is because he was very honest with me. He didn't lie to me about his girlfriend or anything else, and I was very grateful for that.
 
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