went to a football game with my brother-in-law cousin (not blood related). we drank some beer at the game and all, anyway after the game her aunt was picking us up since we couldnt drive home i had my arm around her shoulder at that time. My brother in law cousin works at a bar so she asked me if i wanted to go chill with her there and drinks ome more (after all free drinks for me). As time passed I was talking to some old friends i saw there and my brother in law cousin name is mindy so mindy sat next to me at the bar saying i been looking everywhere for you matt (My name). we sat next to each other she every now and then touched my arm when we were talking and i put my hand on ehr knee and she didnt move it, a few minutes later we danced all i remember is that she was grinding on me and i had my arms around her at the same time. As time passed i was wasted lol so mindy bought me back to my brother in law house since i was staying there for the night. we pulled up and i couldnt make it up the stairs so she helped me and helped me get my pants off ( not the sexual way) i laid down on the sofa and i asked her to come by me and she said she had to go back bc she got asked to work so i waved my arm for her to come by and she did and she said thank you for coming to the game with her and i gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Last night I went out with her again to the bar and this time i drove as we were walking to my truck I put my arm around her shoulder then i moved it down to her waist and she didnt say or do anything. I slept by her place on the sofa and her in her room but before we went to bed she said the tv remote is here you can watch whatever and i said i cant bc your but is in my way and i gave it a light slap and i said laughing what that a jiggle? and she laughed (we were a lil tipsy). She is the type of girl who goes out to the bars almost everynight and sees her friends guys and girls and they kiss her on the cheek so i dont think she is the shy type. I dont want sex right now bc i like to take things slow but I really want to kiss her or her to just lay a kiss on me. Im shy so what would be the best way to get a kiss from her??? or does she even seem interested in me in anyway???? I would love a kiss from her why doesnt she kiss me if she is interested? bc she hasnt i think that she isnt interested in me liek that so idk what to think. is she is just being nice to me and is afraid to let me know and make me feel down.