Internet relationships, awkward situation?

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Alright. There is this guy I met online. Yeah, I'm a guy. That's why I'm posting in this section.

Now, I really like him. A lot. I'm only 16. He's 17. But he is so smart, he's cute, he's funny, he has the most adorable accent!

I mean, I'm not dating him. I'd like to meet him, but sadly, he's not all that close. About 7 hours away. :(

I mean, he says he comes by here sometimes. But not all that often.

I'm just so confused. No, he's not a pedophile. I saw him on webcam. I just really don't know what I'm doing.

I cried when I stopped talking to him today. I wasn't sad, though. It was weird. Like an outburst of emotion, I guess.

Any advice? I'm so confused right now and I just don't know what's going on. I just want to talk to someone about it.
I didn't cry because I miss him. I'm just so confused! It was a weird outburst of emotion. I can't explain it.
 
like last year i was dating a guy who was 3 yrs
older than me(and i knew) i was just like so alone
i was up for anything. when i couldnt talk to him i
was lost. i was willing to do anything for him and i
probaly did too much but eventually those relationships
get out of hand.
 
Ahhh the wonderful tribulations of youth (okay that's a pretty pricky thing for me to say when I've only been 18 for like, three weeks. Thumb down me for that comment!)

So I guess everyone's already acknowledged that you're crushing madly on this guy and that you're beginning to acknowledge that, although you're aching for him badly, there are too many factors standing in your way for you two to even say hi, let alone begin a relationship. Then there's the chance that he might not even feel the same way back, which is just tooo depressing to even consider, ya?

Despite how wonderfully convenient they are, internet relationships S-U-C-K. The feel of a keyboard on an individual's fingertips fails to compare to the euphoric state one gets from holding someone they admire's hand for at least one second. No matter how much you like the guy, you'll always be conflicted with yourself since you'll never be able to meet him.

Or will you (cue dun-dun-dun)

The wonderful thing about not being a jellyfish, having the ability of abstract thought and cool looking opposable thumbs is that we're able to outwardly defy any fate set for us. You like the boy? You want to meet him? Then go do it. Seven hours is nothing more than seven inches in the eyes of the love stricken (and its honestly not too hard to get a ride and excuse that last all day). Romeo and Juliet were... well I'll leave that sentence there.

There's always the possibility of you falling out of like with the guy as well. I believe Miss. Chi-Chi Rodriguez said it best:

"I got a million dream lovers for every light on Broadway. When one of them goes out I just screw in another one, you know, hello good-bye. "

Don't fret over something like this and definitly don't shed tears. Just use everything you have to make things happpen, yah?
 
YOU CRIED because you stopped talking to him for not even 1 whole day!?
Oh my...

I think long distance relationships rarely work if they live for away from each other, and they've never met before, but if you really like him.. let him know.
 
naawwwww that is sooo cute. i cant think of much though. i mean you definetely like him so just go with what your heart desires :D
 
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