is complaining a negative trait?

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classact1

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well when i was a youngster of 16-17 years..i used 2 always complain about things,criticize people,and TALK behind their backs (b1tching).....

over a period of time...i have realized that that is one qaulity i am truely ashamed of...well i think that we will NOT always get NICE people...after all each person will behave as he/she wants...we cant force them 2 behave like we wish

i feel that if a person turns out 2 be a jerk or a as&hole ,...we should just ignore that person and move on...some of us get shocked by a persons horrible nature and go around complaining about them 2 the world...we should just stay away from such people and forget about them completely

i feel the more we complain,the more people will dislike us..they we start 2 tell"hey this guy is just a complaint box..lets go away from him"
also i have seen 1 thing...HATING a person will not make any difference 2 the person...only it will make us feel more painful and full of angst..
i feel that..if you dont like something or some1..just move on and forget it....WHO AGREES??

of course there are times when you cant control your temper and sometimes you do blow up your fuse..but its okay..i am talking GENERALLY..around 70 percent of the times
edit 70 percent..i am SAYING WE SHOULD NOT COMPLAIN 70 PERCENT OF THE TIMES..U TOOK IT the other way round..lol
 
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xpowner2004

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yes [and no] anything you do to excess is most likely not very nice and yes the more you complain the less most people will tend to dislike you {again if it is too excess} and i feel 70% is way too high
 
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