So I met this guy Ryan through a friend of mine.The night we met, we both got drunk and made out. I gave him my number that night, and he texted me the next day. We texted for a while and then he said for me to call him if I want to hang out. So a day or 2 later I was free for a few hours and I called him, we hung out. We have great conversations and I think there's chemistry. He told me when we were hanging out that he was nervous which I thought was cute... and felt really bad about making out that one night because we were both so drunk. Later, when he dropped me off at my house we made out again for a long time, we didn't want to stop kissing because there was a lot of passion which is rare for me. He's a super chill guy (smokes weed, super laid back, but has a good career and a great personality). Anyway, the night went great and he says "So maybe you'll contact me again?" And I was like... of course... I asked him "Do you want me to?" and he said "Yes, what do you think?" and kissed me. He always wants me to text him first though, and pursue him. He's really busy, goes to school and has a job. He responds really slow to texts and earlier he responded to my 'Hope you're havin a good day" and he said "I am thanks. And you?" and I responded and he didn't... so I don't know what this means? Because when we're together in person he seems really interested but through text he doesn't, but he's also not a phone guy. I don't know why he wants me to call the shots and he hardly texts me first? What should I do? I like him a lot. All my past boyfriends have been broke and/or abusive... and I'm over all that... and I finally found a good guy. so should I chase him?