Is he interested or just being nice? Asian guy, black girl?

lera

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*I know it's kind of long but please read it. It's really messing with my confidence :-/

There is this guy I like that I'm not sure if he's interested.

Just being nice/not interested:
-I mostly talk to him online n he seems to talk that way to everyone. You know, with all the smileys and dragging lettersss haha

-he has never initiated contact. HOWEVER, when I do talk to him (especially the first time) he keeps it going. He did that the first time. He even said "care to continue this convo? :)" but then I think he stopped being interested..
we've been online together for hours but he doesnt say anything..all the time :(

- He has this girl that he always flirts with. He had two (both named Sarah haha) but he chose one and now he's mostly with her. BUT, he never asked her out. Not that I know of.

- You know how guys tend to want to be around girls they like and talk to them? Well, I've never seen him particularly try to be around me. At first, maybe but not anymore.

- He never initiates convo in real life either. He's really nice when I talk to him though.

He may like me:

- He always says my name when I'm talking to him. like "Hi, ___" or "Buh Bye, ____" and he says it in a really cute way too. Like a really happy jolly way.

- One time when I came next to the water fountain he clumsily dropped his cup and acted all nervous.

- When he heard I was leaving he got really upset and said "It's great knowing people like you in this world."

What do you think? One more thing I'm kind of paranoid about is that he's asian and I'm black and I heard asian guys dont really go for black girls. Maybe not for grown ups but I think with high school guys it does make sense.......? I don't know :(

Anyways thanks for the help! You're awesome. Have a nice day :-)
 
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