Is it bad to whine about wanting a man so bad when theres like 3 trying to

[JustMet:]

talk to you? i want what i cant have but i thought i had it and now it hurts bad but theres others trying to talk to me but im just not feeling it ! I know what i want but ughh ! Also how do you begin to get over a guy? He insisted multiple times that we remain "bff's" (he is SOO corny sometimes...haha) so obviously he still talks to me a lot but it just hurts..and i remember he told me that we were doing the same thing in reverse..at first i was seriously talking to someone yet he was there too and now its flip flop :/ but still..a dude that wants to talk to me gave me a valuable piece of information...he said: life is too short to llet another mans mistakes keep you from finding someone that can love you better..thats deep..granted there arent any mistakes..i ask the guy why he ever even talked to me if he is in love with this other girl, and he said its not love, its like and that she was with somebody at the time then i came along and i was different..hmm..then i ask then why is he saying "love" on fb..and he says he means as a friend, not real love and that she knew that..yeahh i really dont believe that but alright..he did say it to me and yeahh idk dont toss that word around.anyway plz answer my questions, thanks !

 

[D]

Well if you're trying to get over a guy who you hang out with a lot, that makes it 10x harder for you. Maybe distance yourself from him a little, don't completely remove him from your life though. You could just tell him that you need some time to move on before you two can be 'BFF'S'. If he's a nice guy, he'll understand.
Although you don't feel anything for the other guys, talk to them and become friends. It could help you move on. And you never know, once you get to know these guys you might start to like them.

 

[Jill]

Well if the guy you want saids that he only wants to be friends then you just have to respect that start talking to the other guys that like you maybe you will start likeing them to good luck. Can you help me with mine please

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[Ilikepie2]

sounds like he just want 2 b friends and i have a couple guys waiting outside my door 2 and i don't like any of them or talk 2 them really and i want a guy 2

 

[guy]

Yes because girls have so many options with guys. When a guy whines he's a loser and is just angry because he can't get women(usually the case). When a women whines it is usually because she lost the rich, tall, handsome guy yet she has like 4 other guys calling her that she doesn't give a damm about.

For girls it's like any decent looking to pretty girl has quite a lot of options. For guys anyone below average is ignored, the average get lucky sometimes and the guys with money, looks and a bit of personality get all the women. Then a women may get an average guy if she can't get the guy i just mentioned then the average guy has to be really nice and have things on track.

It's really annoying to hear girls whining about that. If a girl wants to whine i guess it's okay to whine to your friends for a little while but after that just move on. The really funny thing about guys and girls though is if a guy likes a girl we can just go upto her and get it out of the way. Either she likes us or not. Girls don't like chasing and try to wait for guys they like to come approach them. lol that must be annoying not taking matters into your own hands.