talk with ? i was just asked .? I was asked this question from a friend.... he still talks with this ex and even sends specail requests as to what he would like to see from her in these videos.... but the kicker he is in a newly commited relationship and says this girl makes him feel in so many ways like he has never felt before. I told him it is cheating! and if he feels for this girl he longs for (he says he misses and even dreams of this girl) that he should be with her insted of the current "friend". i'm just curious as to what some other thoughts would be.... I just feel bad for the unknowing current girl.....i almost think he is just settling for the current in which case that is not good. thank you