is it gay or quir if i straghtend my hair and im a guy?

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hey i was wondring if i was gay or quir if i straghtend my hair. im a guy in 9th grade and alot of my friends said they liked it and i got like 3 people to ask me out but then some other people say wow watta fag and stuff like tht sooooo plz help me