...he gets home? Hi, Theres this man that I am really good friends with. He knows I have deep feelings for him. I was wondering since I am not working right now and his days are very busy. Would it be pushing it if I made a meal and left it on his doorstep so he doesn't have to cook for himself when he gets home. I thought that it would be a nice surprise. I don't know if the our age makes a difference here lol. He is 62 and I am 51.thanks