Is it the end of my relationship, please take the time to share thoughtful insight?

KatrinaGomez

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I've been dating this guy I work with, and I've already gotten upset for a few things. He corrected the things I mentioned but It seems like theres always something else that bothers me. So I reached the conclusion that we are just not compatible. I began pulling away this week. Cancelling our plans for.the wkd and declining his invite for dinner after work last night. He got the picture I was upset but today at work he acted like we were still a couple. I told my coworker who sits next to me that I felt he was going to need closure. She said she thought he got the hint and I said, I think he's gonna need to be told. At the end of the day she saw him acting like nothing had changed so I think she saw i was right. She went to a coworkers bday party happy hour as did he and many others. I didn't go.
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Our texting convo after work:

Me: Glenn we need to talk soon, pls call when you get a chance, maybe tonight?
Him: I know. I wasn't sure if u wanted to talk to me the last two nights, figured you'd call if u did. Ok
Me: yeah its not a matter of anger so go ahead and call me when you get a free chance. Thx
Him: agreed. Ok

He never called. Do you think he:
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A. Is avoiding or postponing the breakup

B. Got the hint and is letting it be over without a convo

C. Doesn't think I want to break up, but just thinks its going to be another convo of me being upset and he's sick of it, and is thinking of dumping me

D. Our coworker let the cat out of the bag at happy hour (when he was first hitting on me, she told me, wrongfully, that he had a gf...then when I found out he was single and I might like him, she told me about a date he had..so she was causing some trouble early on. I shouldn't have trusted her)
 
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