is not wanting pda a bad thing?

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now ive never liked pda with anyone, ever. other than hugging, holding hands and maybe a kiss here and there.
but my boyfriend of ten months wont get the hint that i just dont like kissing before every class and every other five minutes at lunch and during our drama class where students are pretty much on their own.
he thinks it is because i am emberassed to be seen with him when it sooo isnt. i just cant seem to explain enough too him that ive never liked over pda.
help me exlain it... please!
all answers appreciated.
 
Of course it's not a bad thing. I've been married for 20 years, and neither my husband nor myself really like big huge pda's, never did, even when we started dating. Some people are really into them though, and when it's not reciprocated, feel as your boyfriend does. Perhaps you could tell him that you consider your relationship to be special, so special that you don't want to 'share it with the world'. You don't need to have your lips locked all the time for others to know you're together. If he truly respects and cares about you, he would also respect your wishes to not be so 'public' in the displays of affection.
 
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