is she just really shy or not interested? sorry kinda long <3 you if you leave...

shanedawg

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...feedbac(did i get rejected) lol? my friend texted me when he was at this party and told me that his girlfriends friend thinks I'm cute/hot, she gave him her number to give to me. we started texting each other for a bit then we all met up to play volleyball a couple weeks after. when I walk in the first thing she does is start talking to her friend and hardly looks at me. I poked her when we were playing v ball said hey to her and she said the same thing back. whenever I would look at her if we made eye to eye contact, she would hold it for maybe a second and look somewhere else lol after the night was over I went in and we hugged each other good bye. then we talked a little bit on Facebook about a joke we have together and she told me she was dying from laughing. my friend made plans to play v ball again today and he told me that she was coming randomly (hes always with her and his girlfriend) he's admitted that she is shy, but she hasn't said anything about me. he keeps telling me to go for her. when we played v ball today pretty much the same thing..except as she was leaving she didn't say bye or anything. you can tell she is really shy. she hardly ever looks at me at all lol..my friend mentioned that she's been hurt by some guys. she's 19 years old. I'm always the one who initiates every text, but whenever she responses, it's like a 10 page essay.

i have really strong feeling for someone else, but I'm in the middle of trying to get over them because they are with someone else now (she was never my girlfriend), so I don't want to rush into anything and hurt her. she seems like a really nice girl, but we've never gone on a date. she never texts or contacts me, I'm the the one that has to initiate every time. I really am not ready for anything now anyways. but every time I text or say something on her fb, she responds. should I be calling her up right now and asking her out? am I waiting to long? lol..she goes to college an hour away from me.

I invited her to volleyball last week and she came. I was sitting on the bench by myself waiting for everybody and she happened to come. she waved to me and kinda had a smirkish smile on her face. and we started talking for a bit, every time she talked she has a semi smile on her face. I said a joke to her and touched her arm to see how she would re-act and she didn't move at all or flinch, but she never flirted back. I put my arm around her once too, pretty much the same thing. when we were playing I was trying to make eye contact with her and smile at her, but she never ever looks at me.

I texted withn her all last night and I was playing volleyball with her today. She was hardly ever looking at me, we talked a little bit, pretty much the same. As she was leaving I asked her what she was doing monday and she said she had a family picnic to go to, then i asked her what about tuesday. she told me she had to work. i asked her when she was free because i wanted to take her out. she came back and told me once she gets her hours on tuesday she would let me know what hours she has...then we hugged and she kinda bumped arms/tanged and she said she was sorry..you could tell she was nervous(it was pretty awkward, not gonna lie lol) shes going to be living with her friends an hour away. shes moving on wednesday
 
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