Is she only thinking friendship or relationship. Are her gestures only for...

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Dodo

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...friendship.? I am friend with this girl. We go out quite often say around once in 2 weeks. When i ask her out for movie, dinner, disco she has said yes.
Now i have developed feelings for her. Do you think she will reciprocate. Recently we went out n decided to stay in a hotel.
We slept in different bed in same room.But nothing happened. She never showed any other feelings than a normal friend.Do you think there is more in her with these gestures that she is saying yes to me.She said yes to me whenever we go out but then in ends up discussing normal things.She does't have any boy friend.
 
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cass

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maybe she feels the same way and doesnt know whether you like her or not and doesn't want to mess things up maybe you should try talking to her about it...
 
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HeadDown

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See how she looks at you and you will know if she likes you as a friend is attracted to u(probably not she didn't sleep with you in the hotel)or is interested.OR JUST ASK HER
 
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jinx

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You guys,..seriously are dim-witted!
Like,..sure as hell these are signs,..or as you clearly said gestures! See,..like being a girl,..it would go against my pride to stoop as low as to ask the person I like to take the relationship to another level! It generally assumed that,..it's a guys duty to,.. like say ask the girl about her views about their relationship! So just go for it,..and please,..one more thing don't ever be afraid that like she would say no,..or something even if she does you still could be friends!
So,..stop worrying,..and start cajoling her!
 
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AdiydaLaVida

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Certain areas still call it a 'disco'. You don't have to be rude about the way they talk.

Now, I think you should ask this girl on a 'date' and make sure she know's its an actual date. Tell her how you feel and if she feels the same way then you can go from there.
 
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evilkinevils

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okay this is a tough one and i think that its important to note that this is all speculation but heres my answer

im quite sure that the main reason she doesn't talk to you about irregular friend things is that she likes you too and she doesn't think you like her. see the problem with what youve been doing is that you have probably convinced HER that all YOU want is a friendship (im assuming you want more than that) and so she is afraid to show her feelings to you and ruin what you have. i honestly think you should try kissing her while you are out some time
 
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diztheis

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Try talking to her and ask her out. She doesnt want anything unless you both are in a relationship. she wants to be more than just friends but you are the one that needs to ask her out
 
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Bellat:

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she is probably trying to cover up her feelings because she may not know if you feel the same way. girls don't feel very comfortable making the first move so tell her your feelings or you will regret it.

answer mine?:)

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090817021549AADtekU
 
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