Is she PMSing or Losing Interest?

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I have been friends with benefits with a girl for about 3 months now. I asked her out after a month or so and she said she really needed time because we were really good friends and she didnt want to risk the friendship because she couldnt go a day without talking to me. Now a couple of weeks ago she started showing alot more interest. She was in my room every chance she got( we are college neighbors). She was always hanging out with me and inviting me everywhere, and she was showing alot more affection around our friends, which both her and her friends noticed. Suddenly 3 or 4 days ago she started acting weird, not really cuddling or showing affection, and recently i texted her late tongiht asking her to cuddle or if she was asleep, she didnt respond but i guess she was still a little awake but not very awake and i guess she was very tired. Is she PMSing or Losing interest or what? i guess she had started to show so much interest that both of her best friends highly encouraged me to ask her out again. Is it possible to lose interest tht quickly or could she be PMSing cuz she does get her period soon...
Oh and on top of the whole her friends noticing she has been more affectionate, she also spent a week straight in my room which was very uncommon and she went from spending a week straight to acting weird
 
She is probably just having second thoughts about acting so affectionate. Give her some room and see what happens. Good luck.
 
She's being fickle and feels uncomfortable about not being honest with you...truthfully she is just using you. Sweetie, find someone who truly cares for you...who values your time, feelings and true self. I know this may not be what you want to hear (I'm sorry) but she never had real interest in you to begin with. When a girl (who you are friends with) tells you she needs "time" it's her way of letting you down nicely. Move on...let her figure out the mistake of treating you flippantly...and find someone who will reciprocate your feelings:+)
 
because it is weird to spend a week in somebodies room. u seem to be moving very fast. slow it down!
 
Well I'm a girl and PMS sure does make us whack sometimes lol. It messes with our hormones. I know with my boyfriend, I'll be all lovey and then the next minute I won't even want to be around him. A lot of the time I don't know whats wrong and then later on I realize it must have been PMS. So, while it could be that, it could also be that she has realized how much she likes spending time with you and possibly just needs to think about it. But just ask her!
 
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