soon after meeting them? I'm a 22 year old girl and I dj, as well as promote for different bars in the city I live in. I have met a lot of people in the past four years, and social events have become my life. I am out five nights a week at least. I love to have fun, and meet other guys. I'm not going to be modest, I'm attractive, and a lot of guys give me attention, because of my looks and maybe what I do for my living is interesting to them. I LOVE sex, because I have been blessed with being able to orgasm rather frequently and easily... the more orgasms you have, the more sex you're going to want. My problem is I meet a guy and there's a strong attraction between us, I sleep with them before even going on a date... I can't control my urges. Once I've slept with them, I always have to work so hard to keep them interested in anything other then a sexual relationship, which is common... that's why they say not to sleep with them so quickly... I don't drink a lot, but I love sex and have a hard time not initiating it. Not a lot of guys want to date girls who gave it up to them the first or second time they met them... what am I supposed to do?