I was seeing an aquarius man for a couple months and he disappeared out of nowhere, right after he told me he saw a future with me and that he really liked me. I was confused and hurt, and decided to try talking to him. I playfully asked him if he was planning on ignoring me forever and he told me no, that he was a "retard" and he was trying to figure things out in his head. he also said he was kind of depressed but he will be fine. i asked him if i had done anything to make him mad or upset and he told me i did absolutely nothing wrong. so i left it at that and we had a casual conversation. he said he would try being normal. after our talk, i had realized that i had seen online conversations with a few other girls (half naked ones) that were somewhat flirtatious. this didnt make me upset, but i sent him another message telling him i felt stupid. he asked me why and i ignored the question. a few days later he asked me again what i meant and i told him to forget about it. he started talking to me, asking me how i was, what was new, how work was going, and acting pretty interested in what was going on with me. its been a couple days now and nothing else from him. i have been reading a lot online and did i make a mistake by contacting him? would he have told me then and there that he wasnt interested anymore? i know these men are unpredictable, but i cant tell if theres any hope in having a relationship with this guy!