simplyhopeless121
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Before I start, let me say what happened about a month ago. My friend, we'll call her M, was in a relationship a month back with a manipulative and habitually lying, boyfriend (we'll call him J). They're both 14. I'm 17. and my other friend, (we'll call her K) is 15.
M found out that J was lying about his phone being taken away, when she had K text him. M then used K to send J texts, it came across as though M was trying to put a guilt trip on J. Eventually she finally said that they were over.
Today, I was talking on the phone with her and K.
She was mentioning how J would make such a "WONDERFUL husband and father." I told her that he wouldn't.
Then we got on the topic of what we were going to do at the retreat, knowing fully well that we'd bound to end up running into J there, K and I said that we should avoid him at all costs. M said that even if I did tell him to leave us alone, he wouldn't.
She said that she wanted him to apologize to her and give her the reason why he acted the way he did.
I told her that he would never sincerely apologize to her, because he's that type of boy and the reason why he acted the way he did was because he was still inside, a fxcking immature child.
She didn't listen. She said that she still wants to know and nothing is going to stop her from talking to him, and that he can't "hurt her anymore."
At this point, I was at the verge of snapping, but instead, I texted K and told her that I was going to remain silent.
As K tried to convince her that he won't listen to her, M just used excuses that she doesn't want to lose a "friend." He doesn't even deserve such a title, he's a low life SOB.
K failed to convince her, we said good bye.
I texted K telling her that at the rate that M is going, she's going to end up in an abusive relationship and nothing we say or do will help her, because she's too ignorant to realize it.
It's obvious that K and I can't stand J for good reasons, because if he ends up lying to M about how he feels and everything, they'll end up dating again...
Sometimes I feel like just telling M to do whatever she wants, just don't come crying to me when she gets hurt by J.
But of course, I'll never tell her that...
I forgot to add: How would you handle this situation?
I already told her how I felt, yet she doesn't listen. :[
M found out that J was lying about his phone being taken away, when she had K text him. M then used K to send J texts, it came across as though M was trying to put a guilt trip on J. Eventually she finally said that they were over.
Today, I was talking on the phone with her and K.
She was mentioning how J would make such a "WONDERFUL husband and father." I told her that he wouldn't.
Then we got on the topic of what we were going to do at the retreat, knowing fully well that we'd bound to end up running into J there, K and I said that we should avoid him at all costs. M said that even if I did tell him to leave us alone, he wouldn't.
She said that she wanted him to apologize to her and give her the reason why he acted the way he did.
I told her that he would never sincerely apologize to her, because he's that type of boy and the reason why he acted the way he did was because he was still inside, a fxcking immature child.
She didn't listen. She said that she still wants to know and nothing is going to stop her from talking to him, and that he can't "hurt her anymore."
At this point, I was at the verge of snapping, but instead, I texted K and told her that I was going to remain silent.
As K tried to convince her that he won't listen to her, M just used excuses that she doesn't want to lose a "friend." He doesn't even deserve such a title, he's a low life SOB.
K failed to convince her, we said good bye.
I texted K telling her that at the rate that M is going, she's going to end up in an abusive relationship and nothing we say or do will help her, because she's too ignorant to realize it.
It's obvious that K and I can't stand J for good reasons, because if he ends up lying to M about how he feels and everything, they'll end up dating again...
Sometimes I feel like just telling M to do whatever she wants, just don't come crying to me when she gets hurt by J.
But of course, I'll never tell her that...
I forgot to add: How would you handle this situation?
I already told her how I felt, yet she doesn't listen. :[