my boyfriend recently asked me to marry him, and I said yes. While we were going over the wedding plans, he said that he's always wanted his best friend to be his best man... the only problem is that his best friend has been deployed to Korea since he and I started dating, and when he comes back he'll be living in Washington, while we live in Alaska. I don't feel comfortable having a man I've never met, who all I've heard about him is that he drinks, and he and his wife can't stay faithfull to each other, giving a speech at my wedding. Every time that I bring this up to my fiance, he says that if his best man can't give a speech in the wedding, then he doesn't want my maid of honor in the wedding at all. He's met my maid of honor on many occasions, and it frustrates me a lot.
I'm more worried that he's going mention something along the lines of my fiance's ex, or how much fun they had smoking pot in highschool. I just wish I could get to know him before he's there. The only time I've ever even spoken to him before was him drunk emailing me that it would be cool for me to break up with my then boyfriend so he could bring him back a girl.
I'm more worried that he's going mention something along the lines of my fiance's ex, or how much fun they had smoking pot in highschool. I just wish I could get to know him before he's there. The only time I've ever even spoken to him before was him drunk emailing me that it would be cool for me to break up with my then boyfriend so he could bring him back a girl.