Just so all the "nice guys" can stop whining...?

sara

Member
I'm getting tired of all these "why do women like jerks?" questions from bitter, unsuccessful guys so allow me to straighten things out here: We (women) don't like jerks. Who does? You really think girls like guys who treat us like dirt? We don't. It's just that so many jerks and @ssholes have what "nice guys" don't: Backbone. Balls. The ability to do what he wants and get he wants with assertion and confidence, caring more about about HIMSELF before caring about others, not putting women on a pedestal. That's the main factor that attracts women to the "bad boys". On the other hand the so called "nice guys" tend to lack these things and unfortunately they also tend to be very boring, predictable, and too eager to please. That's why they "lose" with women.

You can have backbone and balls without being a jerk, that's what women want: That good balance. I don't understand why so many people fail to realize that.

Peace.
 

Devin

Member
You love being treated like shit, but you don't consciously realize it. That's why you stay in the abusive relationship. It's not because you think he can change, it's because you love it.
 

ttttttt4

New member
I'm attracted to good looking guys. Some are jerks and some are nice lol. The guy I'm currently talking/dating is good looking and really nice laid back person.

Colby shut up. You don't even know me IRL. I don't see how I'm more shallow than the next person. I'm attracted to good looking guys. Most people are attracted to good looking people.

Hatrick- and attractive guy is a guy who is good looking. I think most people can agree on who is good looking and whose not without taking your preference into consideration.
 

Colby

Member
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Don't forget the super shallow ones!
(You two are like peas from the same air-headed pod)

Ah to be 20 again and know EVERYTHING!

Like when I ripped you a new one before - mature adults don't find honesty, consideration and not playing manipulative games to be "boring, predictable, and too eager to please". And those nice guys don't lose with "women" - they only lose with immature bimbos. And really besides sex, what else are they really losing with little girls like you? Answer - nada

EDIT - Hey Webt, congrats on your first correct answer! :P
 

Simpleanswers

New member
Sorry Sara but in general jerks get women not all women sure but they get enough that they can be forgiven for missing a few.

To be honest women don't seem to know what they want the often go after guys who are the opposite of what 'they say' they want.
 
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