My boyfriend of 2 years and I are very happy. He is normally very caring and affectionate but hasn't been lately and I'm feeling deprived. He has a lot of deadlines in his college classes coming up and I know he is just distracted and stressed out. Well I have spent every day this week helping him with research papers, homework etc. and he has barely paid attention to me. I know I'm being selfish but I feel really mad about it. I have helped him so much the least he can do is be affectionate toward me. He keeps telling me things like "i'm gonna do this for you..I'm gonna buy you this..I'm gonna rub your back later" but he never follows through and i'm feeling ignored. How do I get rid of these feelings?
You're not being selfish...
If he can't cut it in his classes... he won't be able to cut it in life. If he needs the help of a woman... or anyone for that matter, to make it through college, he'll have even more trouble making it through life.
He sound like a real DOUCHE-BAG. Dump his loser a**. Get yourself a real man. A relationship isn't about completing each other, it's about enhancing each other. If he can't make it on his own he doesn't need or deserve a woman... especially one as lovely and loyal as you. He'll just bleed you dry.
GET OUT, live your life and hopefully you'll find a guy who is stable and will be good for you.
If he can't cut it in his classes... he won't be able to cut it in life. If he needs the help of a woman... or anyone for that matter, to make it through college, he'll have even more trouble making it through life.
He sound like a real DOUCHE-BAG. Dump his loser a**. Get yourself a real man. A relationship isn't about completing each other, it's about enhancing each other. If he can't make it on his own he doesn't need or deserve a woman... especially one as lovely and loyal as you. He'll just bleed you dry.
GET OUT, live your life and hopefully you'll find a guy who is stable and will be good for you.
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I appreciate that you need to vent but there is a problem here.
You have to evaluate whether or not you are too needy.
This isn't a time when he can satisfy you if you are very needy.
For his sake, I'd "suck it up" and keep the neediness in check so he can get important work done. This college thing is only done once in most people's lives and he needs to get it right NOW with your help.
You have to evaluate whether or not you are too needy.
This isn't a time when he can satisfy you if you are very needy.
For his sake, I'd "suck it up" and keep the neediness in check so he can get important work done. This college thing is only done once in most people's lives and he needs to get it right NOW with your help.
I dare you to try this....
in his laptop stick a post it that says "your hands need to be off this keyboard and onto me "---as if the keyboard is talking... then shut it so its a surprise when he sees it...just make sure he sees it and opens it in private lol
Hes trying to do well in school, give him a break girl...I know u wanna vent so I soo understand u but try this funny method.
in his laptop stick a post it that says "your hands need to be off this keyboard and onto me "---as if the keyboard is talking... then shut it so its a surprise when he sees it...just make sure he sees it and opens it in private lol
Hes trying to do well in school, give him a break girl...I know u wanna vent so I soo understand u but try this funny method.
me personally, next time he says im gonna rub your back later, say yeah you said that last time too. Getting rid if the feelings? find something to occupie the void or talk to him about it. Relationships need communication. Just because he's stressed with school doesnt mean he cant make a few mins for you.