Boardatworkt
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he didint take it too well? I am reposting cause i want more opinions...
My former gf joked with me about being pregnant...at this point we had been having trouble for the past 3 months.growing very distant and have not had sex for about two months. .. we had a huge fight about her asking me for her space, she had even suggested that i "find another freak" so that i can go back to having sex,then 3 days later... we have a fight .. she tells me we need to talk .. i have finals that week so i ask her to wait .. and then after that week, we are at a restaurant, and she tells me that she is pregnant ... i flip out, basically ask her who she has been having sex with, and question the paternity. i do this because she decides one month prior to stop using the birth control ring.. and the first thought in my head is .. she has been cheating on me.. thats why she has been acting so weird... she even dissapeared for 3 days once....!! i was worried as heck. and now she is pregnant.. .. but .. then she says.. its just a joke.....!!! I get even more mad... she says she wanted to start her braking up with me with a joke...and then she procedes to break up with me... i beg her not to do it.. and then she says that if i just give her her space we should be alright.. i agree.. two days later we meet up for dinner and its almost normal .. and i see her one more time.. and then after that .. she starts to make excuses to not see me anymore. we talk for like 3 more months after that .. and then i aske were we stand.. she says its pretty much over .. and has been for a while.. ... .. and now .. i am really worried that she might have been pregnant..... because nuvaring is not fool proff..... is this woman crazy .. or is this normal behaivor for women.... !!!! i am really worried about this... especially because right after we went to a bar and had a few drinks... and the day after that ..we got together and had dinner.. and had a few drinks there too... .. ijust dont know what to think .. if she is just crazy .. or if she was really pregant.... we talked for a few months after that ...and i begged her to get back with me... i begged her not to break up with me .. i begged.. i asked her to meet.. to dinner.. just to talk.. .. just to see me.. she wouldnt.. i dont understand this behaivior .. and it bother me.. is she just nuts.. or am i the crazy one.. !!! in the 3 months + after that night .. she never mentioned it again .. and we were on good terms at that point.. she even texted me when her favorite cat died,, and when her dog ran away... and how her business trips were going.. i loved her very much btw.. which is why when she was having trouble with he sex drive.. i didnt question it.. it wasn't until every time i wanted to talk to her.. she would be really cold about it.. that i became suspicious.. .. It also did int help that her family had to move in with her .. so she was very very stressed at the time..!!
also .. someone told me that it was just a test.... just to see how i would react... but .. what a messed up thing to do..!!
2 hours ago
she is a very insecure person .. which is why i cut her slack in everything.. from he constant accusations of cheating.. to the fact that she for a while there she was actually looking online for my replacement..... but this was in the beginning.. but i forgave her for it..
My former gf joked with me about being pregnant...at this point we had been having trouble for the past 3 months.growing very distant and have not had sex for about two months. .. we had a huge fight about her asking me for her space, she had even suggested that i "find another freak" so that i can go back to having sex,then 3 days later... we have a fight .. she tells me we need to talk .. i have finals that week so i ask her to wait .. and then after that week, we are at a restaurant, and she tells me that she is pregnant ... i flip out, basically ask her who she has been having sex with, and question the paternity. i do this because she decides one month prior to stop using the birth control ring.. and the first thought in my head is .. she has been cheating on me.. thats why she has been acting so weird... she even dissapeared for 3 days once....!! i was worried as heck. and now she is pregnant.. .. but .. then she says.. its just a joke.....!!! I get even more mad... she says she wanted to start her braking up with me with a joke...and then she procedes to break up with me... i beg her not to do it.. and then she says that if i just give her her space we should be alright.. i agree.. two days later we meet up for dinner and its almost normal .. and i see her one more time.. and then after that .. she starts to make excuses to not see me anymore. we talk for like 3 more months after that .. and then i aske were we stand.. she says its pretty much over .. and has been for a while.. ... .. and now .. i am really worried that she might have been pregnant..... because nuvaring is not fool proff..... is this woman crazy .. or is this normal behaivor for women.... !!!! i am really worried about this... especially because right after we went to a bar and had a few drinks... and the day after that ..we got together and had dinner.. and had a few drinks there too... .. ijust dont know what to think .. if she is just crazy .. or if she was really pregant.... we talked for a few months after that ...and i begged her to get back with me... i begged her not to break up with me .. i begged.. i asked her to meet.. to dinner.. just to talk.. .. just to see me.. she wouldnt.. i dont understand this behaivior .. and it bother me.. is she just nuts.. or am i the crazy one.. !!! in the 3 months + after that night .. she never mentioned it again .. and we were on good terms at that point.. she even texted me when her favorite cat died,, and when her dog ran away... and how her business trips were going.. i loved her very much btw.. which is why when she was having trouble with he sex drive.. i didnt question it.. it wasn't until every time i wanted to talk to her.. she would be really cold about it.. that i became suspicious.. .. It also did int help that her family had to move in with her .. so she was very very stressed at the time..!!
also .. someone told me that it was just a test.... just to see how i would react... but .. what a messed up thing to do..!!
2 hours ago
she is a very insecure person .. which is why i cut her slack in everything.. from he constant accusations of cheating.. to the fact that she for a while there she was actually looking online for my replacement..... but this was in the beginning.. but i forgave her for it..