I am 64 always straight. My personal trainer is 47. After a few month into the training, I felt she was flirting with me--her hand on my hand, always giving hugs at end of training. Once I fell down my stairs and when I told her what happened, she talked up to herself saying, "you can't go, what about us." I did not say anything. I was scared, but liked her flirting, and I would touch her hand during workout and was flirting also. Sometimes she would even put on lipstick before starting my session. With me being scared, I would talk about guys I met (and she seemed upset) and she would always say it's the energy I'm putting out. Then one day, she seemed upset and said, I'm not playing with you anymore. Sometime after that we went for coffee and she said we have to let mother nature takes it course and that I want everything now. She also said something like it will be on her terms and meanwhile she has to keep our workouts professional. I didn't say a word because what she said came out of the blue and I wasn't sure what she meant. I told her a friend of mine was moving in and she jumped up and said, no, you can't let her, you need your privacy. We decided to set a date for her to come to my place to see it. The day before, I asked if we were on and she said she didn't want to put any pressure on me. I said no pressure. When she stopped by my place just to see it, she said is this the room that that lady is going to stay in.
For months nothing has been said, and foolishly because I cannot get her out of my mind, I told her to google a song named "Hidden Away" by Josh Groban. Well, tomorrow I will see if she did google it and what her reaction is. Oh, she did mention at one time that she did not date clients.
So, if I put my foot in my mouth and she was just playing, how do I just keep her as a friend. PS. I don't think I am interested in any other female. So what am I, bi-curious?
And she has mentioned she has a boyfriend, but when I ask her what she did on the weekend, she always says nothing or was with her family. I know there is a big age difference, but she and a lot of others say I look 55ish; one person thought I was 47. Another time I told her that my bestfriend from high school was lesbian; she asked me if my friend had a partner and I said yes. Then she sat there at her computer with a big smile on her face.
Lulu
What about the song and lyrics to the song "Hidden Away" by Josh Grobin that I told her to google? I see her tomorrow. If she doesn't respond the way I like, how do I get out of this to keep her just a friend.
For months nothing has been said, and foolishly because I cannot get her out of my mind, I told her to google a song named "Hidden Away" by Josh Groban. Well, tomorrow I will see if she did google it and what her reaction is. Oh, she did mention at one time that she did not date clients.
So, if I put my foot in my mouth and she was just playing, how do I just keep her as a friend. PS. I don't think I am interested in any other female. So what am I, bi-curious?
And she has mentioned she has a boyfriend, but when I ask her what she did on the weekend, she always says nothing or was with her family. I know there is a big age difference, but she and a lot of others say I look 55ish; one person thought I was 47. Another time I told her that my bestfriend from high school was lesbian; she asked me if my friend had a partner and I said yes. Then she sat there at her computer with a big smile on her face.
Lulu
What about the song and lyrics to the song "Hidden Away" by Josh Grobin that I told her to google? I see her tomorrow. If she doesn't respond the way I like, how do I get out of this to keep her just a friend.