lost my job after six years of dedicated service, no unemployment, drank alot and stole something of small value from a family member. Now my "girlfriend" won't see me and I'm not allowed in the house. The daughter and step-son are expecting another child and I'm banished. My girlfriend and I talk, just don't see each other anymore - she says she cant forget - I ended up "stalking" her last weekend at our local hangout - what should I do, is there a chance that forgiveness could be in the picture...I'm 45 and she's 46 - any suggestions?