Man problems reconnecting with a travelling man?

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My boyfriend has to travel for work. We have been together for 6 months, and while he's gone we talk on the phone. I care about him a lot and I have notice since he has been back this last time I'm not instantly ready to hop into bed with him. And when we do I'm really not into it at all, which is the complete opposite to the normal for me. When he asked what was up I told him I just wasn't feeling connected to him. And that was the end of the chat. Well, fast forward to a few days later and I still feel the same way. But I made a comment about romance and suddenly he tired. It made me feel kinda cheap. what is the best was to deal with this when speaking to him. And what's going on with me? I need a good warm up and he just doesn't seem to get it, or he is just too lazy.
 
One of two things is going on...........................................................

#1. You are just not into him anymore and need to grasp the concept of that.

#2. Just tell him you want MORE foreplay, he'll never know til you just say it. Tell him the things that turn you on, where to touch you, kiss you and whisper things in your ear. Also, when you know you are going to be with him, think of things that get you started ( and I know there got to be a few things) that way it won't seem so long getting to where you want to be.

Good luck!
 
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