Me and my cousins relationship?

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leHelloKitty

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ive tried talking to her but all she does is ignore me and says no shes not and shes doing the right thing. She always thinks shes right. And at times shes not.
Me & my cousins are really close, but she is really aggresive, if i accidenlty hit her she would hit me back when i already said sorry. & she gets jelous easily too. What ever i have she has to have better. When i play a song she fakes that she knows that songs too and starts singing and she is mumbling too. She talks about other ppl behind there back to me and i dont like it. & she says she deosnt talk about me when she does. & She treats her friends way better. And she says im her best cousin when it doesnt seem like it. She lables herself as a scene & i told her why are you labling yourself, shes like i never did. And shes always like Wow that person cant even be scene im better at being scene. What should i do to fix this up? i Dont wanna be treated like this anymoer & i dont want her to act like this to me or do this anymore. Its just not right.
 
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DlMarie

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Your cousin sounds very insecure and scared. Cousin seems like there is pressure to be the best and know it all. No one knows all the songs and words and it just sounds like a very scared person here.

You do not have to deal with it. But this is family and being able to get through this will prepare you for a job you love under a manager you hate, or when you have kids and one is in a very trying phase that makes you want to pull your hair out. Building up mental endurance is good to do, it can make your relationships last. No one is perfect even Mr. or Mrs. Right. So chalk this up to an learning experience and try to figure out how to deal with a difficult person.
 
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Jan

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Tell your immature cousin to grow up,get a life,and you move on with yours.There's no reason for you to be around this kind of nastiness.
Leave her to swim in her own swill and go get some real friends!
 
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Desi

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Blood is thicker than water. She'll come around once she realizes that no matter how mad she gets you will never be anything less than her flesh and blood.

Good luck!
 
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Topazgirl1121

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maybe she has anger building up and she takes it out on you and you should stand up for yourself. and if she doesnt like it then oh well. you shouldnt be close to anyone that doesnt treat you the way you want to be treated.
 
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Topazgirl1121

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maybe she has anger building up and she takes it out on you and you should stand up for yourself. and if she doesnt like it then oh well. you shouldnt be close to anyone that doesnt treat you the way you want to be treated.
 
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Desi

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Blood is thicker than water. She'll come around once she realizes that no matter how mad she gets you will never be anything less than her flesh and blood.

Good luck!
 
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beesh

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My personal opinion is she just hasn't matured yet, once she grows up alittle bit maybe she will treat you much better but try not to let the things she says/ does bother you, just take a breather if she upsets you but if she gets to a point where you are raging mad take a bit to yourself then when your calmed down let her know how you fell, never do anything put of anger it may destroy your relationship
 
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Jan

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Tell your immature cousin to grow up,get a life,and you move on with yours.There's no reason for you to be around this kind of nastiness.
Leave her to swim in her own swill and go get some real friends!
 
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Desi

Member
Blood is thicker than water. She'll come around once she realizes that no matter how mad she gets you will never be anything less than her flesh and blood.

Good luck!
 
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Andrew1

Active member
Well I think you're doing the right thing. Just keep treating her nicely and maybe if she starts acting up again try telling her how you feel. Maybe she'll stop. I wish you luck... I really do.
 
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