MEN - Why is my boyfriend acting this way? Help me decipher this...?

Desk1

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Lately my boyfriend of 1 year+4mths has been cancelling on me when we have plans. He says he's busy but isn't very apologetic, no "I'll make it up to you babe" or "I'm so so sorry, I really want to see you but..." like he used to. He's been doing this for about a month now. He says he's busy and that's about it. I believe that he's busy (he's in the process of moving and he works 40+ hours a week), but it still hurts that he can't take out a couple of hours to see me in a freaking week :(

Then I get upset...we fight....and the rest is history.

PLEASE do not tell me he's cheating on me. He's not like that and he's extremely loyal, as am I. But is he losing interest or should I just give him a break? He's also been generally less caring lately, forgetting to call me, not wanting to talk to me very long on the phone, snapping at me A LOT, yelling, being moody, etc. We usually hang out once per week.

I'm 20, he's 22. We don't live together obviously.

Please help :(
 
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