i moved with back with my grandparents because i didn't like my step mom and every time i talk to my dad on text message he says something to piss me off i haven't seen him and 5 weeks well he is back in town and will be at my church he has always gone but has been out of town and im worried we might have some words you know maybe a fight i don't know if i should stand up for my self and be a man or just enore him?