my own sexuality. HELP!? My bestie just told me she fantasizes about me sexually and has thought about what it would be like if we got married. We are both Christian, but I have a hard time believeing in a God that would condemn anyone for LOVING other humans (it is the greatest comandment). Neither of us have acted on it, but she has decided (before she understands her own sexuality) that it is a sin and therefore something she will not participate in. I support her either way, but I'm truly afraid of how she will treat me and what will happen to our relationship if I do come out as a bisexual. How can I best support her without compromising my feelings and my self?
My best friend just told me that she thinks sexually about me. I haven't figured out
Wow, that's a tough one. I feel for you! Look, I'm just going to give my opinion on this. Talk to her. Tell her you haven't figured out your own sexuality ( truth is always best even though it seems harder and I know what your thinking: easier said then done but trust me, it's the right thing) I know it seems like you might be hurting her feelings but if you keep leading her on then that's even worse! If she just rejects you and treats you badly then I guess she wasen't worth it...but you'll never know if you don't find out, right?
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