My best friend yelled at me for complaining about my life. What should i

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do when he's got a point? My best friend is a guy. I don't have a best girl friend, i can't trust them because they can't keep their mouths shut, but he can. So one night he yelled at me and told me to stop complaining about my life, and that i need to stop crying everyday of my life. He's got a point, but he's never open enough with me for me to understand him, and we got in the hugest fight because of this, and we made up three weeks later. What should i do, he's right i need to bring my head up i just don't know how to.
 
Say sorry to him cause...life is tough of course you need an outlet to vent out frustration or complain about life.
 
The issue is your focus is on yourself not others. No one can be happy when their focus in life is themselves only - in fact egocentric-ism it is a sign of mental disease.

So make your focus upon making others happy and meeting their needs - i don't mean supplying their monetary needs but their needs for understanding, for emotional support, and for being a positive influence upon their day, You do this and you will not have time to focus on what you don't like about you life and you will be markedly happier.

The other thing is exercise. A hard workout create positive feeling by the release of endophines. Make sure you get in some exercise.
 
The issue is your focus is on yourself not others. No one can be happy when their focus in life is themselves only - in fact egocentric-ism it is a sign of mental disease.

So make your focus upon making others happy and meeting their needs - i don't mean supplying their monetary needs but their needs for understanding, for emotional support, and for being a positive influence upon their day, You do this and you will not have time to focus on what you don't like about you life and you will be markedly happier.

The other thing is exercise. A hard workout create positive feeling by the release of endophines. Make sure you get in some exercise.
 
you defniitely need to do what he says or else he rpobably wont be interested in hanging out with you anymore. he is right why dont you stop complaining get up off your ass and go out with ur best friend and do something in public, such as a sport, clubs, beach, park, party.. ANYTHING. and meet new people. that's all you need to do, just get rid of anything bad that is affecting u and look on the bright side.
 
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