as cold as ice!? We've been together for 2 yrs and 3 months & I recently temp moved in with him whilst waiting for my flat to complete. He's offered for me to move in though so I accepted. I've been in his flat for just over a month now, which is same time for when he's been away. I've missed him a lot and was surprised to see how his behaving recently. Not that he's not behaved like this before - he tends to go icy - but never understood why. He's been back for 2 days now, and he keeps rejecting me - no cuddles, no kisses (i only had 2 smacks), let alone sex. He's going back to his parents for xmas and back here again for NY, but will not tell me whether he wants to celeb NYE with me or not. I've read the book "The Secret" and tries to applies the principles by staying positive and being grateful, knowing what you want and focusing on that - but if someone you love seems like blatantly pushing you away - how can you even do that? Help, i want to understand him and wants him to be normal but i really don't know what to do...