My bf has been emailing other women on the internet?

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I found this out today, nothing dirty or racy but upsetting none the less. Mild flirting. Swapping email addresses and stuff. I dumped him...was this the right thing to do? After all, he didn't meet any of these women and he only did it a few times...possibly when we had broken up before. he swears that he had no intention to meet them. I'm really hurt.
No, he didn't know these women in real life and some were overseas. He is a perfect bf in every other respect and I love him to bits
Thanks so much for your answers, I might make him sweat a bit to teach him a lesson. Glad to hear I'm not the only one who has had this happen to them. Men are so pathetic aren't they, it's all about their egos.
It feels like an emotional betrayal, a lack of respect or like they are taking the piss
 
probably an overreaction form what you are saying. I also email and even chat and yet I am married . my wife is aware although not keen on it. as long as it is open ( I have often invited wife to sit with me while i type and get responses) it should not be an issue , a bit like having a penfriend.
under no circumstances should it get to a stage where any sort of meeting with another person is proposed, this is the sticking point so many get wrong. while it fine to chat ,mail etc at arms length like a big game! it becomes reality if you meet. that is where you are crossing the line between being friendly and outgoing and betraying a trust. In that case anybody would be correct to abandon their partner a sit is a total betrayal of trust and emotions.
 
Same thing happend to me. I was absolutly fumming at the time. I cudda left him. Then thinking about it its not the worth it for wot it was. I did forgive him. I said I dont like it and NEVER to do it again, and he wont. Ill remember what he did tho. Were all good.
 
All he did was talk to women over the internet, did he know them in real life, were they related? you needed to give him time to talk. I CANT BELIVE YOUR HURT, your ex is probably crying his heart out
 
ok so.i can relate to everything you`re saying right now..i have a boyfriend that i`ve been with for a year now..he talks to other girls on his myspace page all the times.and then..we they see that im the girl on his top and there`s pictures of us together,,they have the nerve to add me and ask question..then i go and confront him on it...But i dont think u should`ve broke up with him because im sure he talks to girls online and in person but there all just his friends. yes it hurts to see things like this..but its just life..boys dont always wanna talk to boys even if they have a love one..
 
All he did was talk to women over the internet, did he know them in real life, were they related? you needed to give him time to talk. I CANT BELIVE YOUR HURT, your ex is probably crying his heart out
 
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