my boyfriend and i argue all the time and he hits me but says he loves me....

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safetydawg

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i think you should run as fast as you can, away from this loser.

IF you stay, chances are real real good that you will wake up dead one day. people like him do not change. they get remorseful, cry, beg, plead their love for you...and beat the hell out of you next time it strikes his fancy.
if you can live like that...god help you. if you have children with this crud, you resign them to the same fate.

run fast and run far.
 
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SasVo

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many women get them self stuck into a situation like this. but you have to understand his behaviour is unacceptable and you need to break out of the hold he has on you and realise how much more you deserve. it is not impossible to live without him. you may love him and he may love you but that is not enough, you are not happy and by shrugging of the unacceptable and harmfull way he treats you and overlooking the arguments you are dooming yourself. a man like that dose not deserve someone so selfless and does not have the right to belittle you. there is heaps of help out there for women like you you do not have to do it alone.
 
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ILOVEDANIEL<3

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Leave him. You deserve better and it's not right for someone to hit you, he doesnt really love you if he keeps hitting you all the time. and maybe he should seek councilling and/or other support.

hope everything's ok.
 
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worriedowner

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oh sweetheart... ok been there done that.. and my only advice to you is to get out of the relationship. I bet the first time he hit you was a push or slap, then he probably cried.. then over time it gets worse. If you are posting this on here, then I think you know deep down what you should do.. be strong and firm and don't listen to the 'but I love you' 'no one will love you the way I will' seriously my love, leave him.. bad news.. and tell him to go to anger management. good luck.. and remember, you are not alone.. x
 
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ChloeG

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Google "abusive men" and read some of the articles that result.

You need to break up, but do so in a certain manner. To break up with an abuser is not easy. Perhaps look up the local pages to find a womens shelter and contact one of the councillers there. You will need help to leave with male.

Men do NOT hit those they love.
 
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Liz

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He is an idiot, a controlling, overbearing, possessive idiot, what on earth are you doing with him ? My first husband beat me for years and I was so ignorant I accepted it, you are doing the same thing, move out, move on and leave this woman beater to his own devices.
If necessary get police protection because in my own experience men like this do NOT leave you alone once you make the decision to leave.
 
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readytogo1

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hes abusive, break up

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