it only gets slow when its connected to the internet and i cant open any programs i try every thing to fix it but nothing has work i down loaded fix-it utilities 9 and did a tone of test and it says there are no viruses
It is not a virus... it is a lack of RAM. When you connect to the internet it automatically ties up RAM slowing down the other system processes.
This program will tell you what type of RAM you have: http://www.filehippo.com/download_cpuz/download/ca7c9ba6473c1e09776d892b213af039/
I would suggest at least 1GB of RAM if you are running anything other than Vista and 3GB if you are running Vista