My ex and I broke up because i wasnt ready for sex but i still want to be with him,

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Blondie

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what should i do? i have liked my ex since i was 8 and he wants to have sex but im not ready for that and now he wont talk to me. i tried to send him a letter explaining that i wasn't ready and seeing if we could overcome this nd move on into our relationship but he hasn't answered. he wont answer my phone calls and im starting to feel like i'm bugging him but i really want to work this out and see what will happen. what should i do?
 
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EmeE1

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If he won't accept that you're not ready, you need to forget him. He's not worth it. It only means he has sex on the brain, and not the development of the relationship.
If he does really care about you, he'll talk to you about it. Maybe he's hurt that you don't want to have sex with him. But if this is the case, he will come to accept that it's just that you're not ready yet, not that you'll never want to.

Don't give in and be forced into it, no matter how much you love him. Give him space for now. If he loves you back, he'll come around. If he doesn't, all you have to do is find a more worthy boyfriend.
 
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