My EX best friend believes all of the rumors people said I said about her?

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So my ex best friend heard rumors that we werent gonna pass the ball to her in basketball and that we were always talking crap about her behind her back and it's totally not true!! She tells people that we (Me and sabrina)(my new best friend) (Yay!) That are mean to her when she was the real one being mean to us! And I just a new phone, the pantech matrix, and she acts like nothing happen, looks and messes with my phone, then goes back to being her mean self. I just wanted some advice from some of you so please please please help me!
 
Tell her to knock off the crap because she knows what really happened. If she does anything more to you, you will have to tell your Mom or Dad, Guardian, or a counselor at school. I had troubles with a few friends like that and we had to go to the vice principal's office, we became true, real great friends after talking to the vice principal. What he did was show us we're the same, he told us to put our hands on his desk. He took out a pocket knife that a kid had taken to school and got expelled, and didn't get it back. He was putting the knife just about to our hands when we both pulled our hands away. He said that we both have red blood, what's the problem? And that what we were doing was stupid because we were fighting for nothing. We know better than to believe rumors. He was 100% right. Your 'friend' doesn't seem like a very good 'friend'. She doesn't seem like a friend at all. She turned her back against you, not a true friend. All i can say is if she continues after you tell her to stop, contact a counselor or your parents; guardian. Best of Luck! ?
 
Don't waste time trying to track down who started or spread the rumor. It's futile and ineffective. Just front her and tell her that the rumors she had heard aren't true. If she doesn't believe you, her loss. Challenge the veracity. Big rumors are the hardest to deal with, as they are not easily stopped. To try to stop them, tell everyone they aren't true. It can be embarrassing, but it will just become worse over time if you do nothing to stop it.
 
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