...them is that wrong? I live right across the street from my sister and my mom lives in the same complex too. I have lived here long before they moved here. They have always asked for money or cigarettes or money for beer. I just recently got married for the second time and my sister or mom are coming over everyday asking me for money or to borrow my car. My sister just recently asked me for money and I told her I don't have it. She seemed upset and then she left and I end of feeling bad. Am I wrong?