ok so my family has always said that i m selfish and i only care about myself and i think that the reason they think that is i m not very good with expressing my feelings, i tried to change their mind but every time they assume other things so now i m done trying to prove that i m not selfish and i do care about them. today there was an argument and everybody said that i dont care because i m gonna be leaving soon (getting married) so thats why i dont even want to help them out and i wasnt thinking that at all but i never said anything, i feel like i m not going to try to prove myself they are my family so they need to know what kind of person i m but looks like they have already made up their mind about me and no matter what i do it wont change anything.
am i doing the right thing?
am i doing the right thing?