ive been with my fiance for almost 10 years, living together half of the time.
i'd love you to read this and give me your honest thoughtful answers
We've never had sex in the morning, okay that i can get over.
he never comes to me in bed he just gives me a peck and a hug, if he wants sex he'll ask me to take a shower with him sometime during the day, never at night in bed. He doesnt touch me sexually outside of 'lets have a shower...'.
the sex once we have it is good, great, but this is killing me, ive talked about it a fair bit and theres always a reason hes not in the mood, he is a shift worker so you can expect him to be tired
we have sex on average once every 2 weeks, i think thats the average, every now and then it might be once a week, recently we just had three weeks with no action which he said - shock horror - he felt sexually frustrated. I dont think weve ever had sex 2 days in a row, im not a horrible woman, its just a big deal when its missing and no matter what he says i cant not internalise this feeling of being unattractive which i know intellectually isnt true buecuase i am really fit, in 20s and often see guys looking at me
what am i doing? i am so sick of porn and masturbating, i think its starting to have a depressive effect
most men cant be like this, all i ever hear women talk about is how they are sick of their guys being obsessed with sex?
women would you stay?
oh your probably thinking why are you there, ive stayed becuase hes a lovely genuine guy
yes ive thought of cheating, but what would that solve, so no ive never cheated
i'd love you to read this and give me your honest thoughtful answers
We've never had sex in the morning, okay that i can get over.
he never comes to me in bed he just gives me a peck and a hug, if he wants sex he'll ask me to take a shower with him sometime during the day, never at night in bed. He doesnt touch me sexually outside of 'lets have a shower...'.
the sex once we have it is good, great, but this is killing me, ive talked about it a fair bit and theres always a reason hes not in the mood, he is a shift worker so you can expect him to be tired
we have sex on average once every 2 weeks, i think thats the average, every now and then it might be once a week, recently we just had three weeks with no action which he said - shock horror - he felt sexually frustrated. I dont think weve ever had sex 2 days in a row, im not a horrible woman, its just a big deal when its missing and no matter what he says i cant not internalise this feeling of being unattractive which i know intellectually isnt true buecuase i am really fit, in 20s and often see guys looking at me
what am i doing? i am so sick of porn and masturbating, i think its starting to have a depressive effect
most men cant be like this, all i ever hear women talk about is how they are sick of their guys being obsessed with sex?
women would you stay?
oh your probably thinking why are you there, ive stayed becuase hes a lovely genuine guy
yes ive thought of cheating, but what would that solve, so no ive never cheated