my fiance can't stop complaining and whining?

[Lena]

I have been in relationship with him for 6 years and the last 2 years every conversation we have in phone, chat or live starts with him complaining. He complains about being sick, about food, dust, his house, his family, his friends, his health, his everything. Every day he calls me in the morning and everytime i ask him what are you doing how are u, he will tell me how he feels pain somewhere. I am so sorry he is feeling that bad but sometimes i just want to say stoppppppppp... i WANT to talk for anything except complaining how he is suffering, how he works so much and have so much stress.
I tried to politely say to him that would be nice to make a complaining time for example just 5 minutes we can say complain whatever we want and stuff but it is not working. I told him that if you concentrate in bad thing u are giving them ur energy so just ignore it but again this advice did not change anything. he is very sensitive to the bad food so everytime he eats it he complains of his stomach hurting him. I told him please do not eat it if it makes u feel bad, but he he says o i was stresses so i had to eat... and the same thing goes every day on and on and on.
I just desperately need to deal with this since i am afraid i will loose my temper and i dont wanna scream to him.. i just do not know how to deal with it anymore...

Please helppp
P.S I asked and begged him to go and see a doctor but he wont listen. He says u are making it worse by making pressure on me. he runs a big business and it is all the time under a big pressure and stress and i am so sorry for him but i dont know how to convince him to change his lifestyle. He keeps reading in internet about its symptoms and says i got IBS (i know that he is in pain because he has so many gases) tham tomorrow is his liver, than his eyes....
and no he does not call me often or go out with me often because he so busy, but when he does it almost same thing....

 

[SensiG]

When he calls immediately talk about what you did for the day and what you plan to do for the week. You have to continuously remind him that you exist also. This man is going to be your husband someday if he's like this now it will only get worse. Your fiance feels like he could come to you for anything and that you should just deal with him complaining. He is not going to limit his complaining to 5 minutes. This man is in a serious state of depression. It doesn't sound like you two live together and that maybe what is causing his depression. He's not complaining he's trying to tell you he's depressed and he doesn't know what to do to fix his problem. You're stressed out because you want him to deal with his issues without always involving you. When you decide to get married you'll see that his problems are your problems. I would get him into some counseling. If you don't he's going to eventually quit his job and quit having a social life and just stay at home and lay in bed and call you crying. Please do everything you can to help him or don't marry him it sounds like this is a problem that you don't want to deal with.

 

[1540]

He needs a full check up to make sure nothing is physically wrong. Start with that.

 

[suez]

6 years and he has been complaining for two years - in that time has he seen a doctor? Sometimes people need to talk to a counselor to help get their thoughts together. You may love him but if you can not listen to him anymore it because you are "full"; you have your life too. It is not a bad thing to complain but when it makes others sick it is time to seek out help.