He says he would rather watch porn and "do it himself" because it takes less effort....i know im good at what i do, im a bit older than him..so i know its not that, but if hes interested in the idea of sex, just not with a partner, whats wrong? im to the point of breaking this off, its making me feel horrible about myself. I get hit on all the time, but cant get him to show any interest. what am i doing wrong?