I've known this guy for a couple of months. His car has been broke the whole time, I don't have a car. My girlfriend has been cool enough to give me rides to pick this guy up and dropped us both off at the bar multiple times. We even brought the guy along to go dancing with my GF's friend. Me and my girl are in a new city and we're trying to be cool and make some friends.
So I told the guy, "Hey, if you need help moving some big stuff LET ME KNOW and I'll try to borrow my GF's SUV." Last night I borrowed my cousin's Honda and helped him move until 1am.
Today he sent my GF a message on Facebook asking her whether or not he can borrow her SUV to move a mattress. She calls me up like, "hey what's going on, did you tell your friend to contact me?"I find this to be extremely rude when I told him to ask me.
Do you?
One of the things that make it rude to me, is that I was going to be the person coming to meet him and help him load his stuff etc. So for him to contact her as though she is going to go HELP HIM MOVE...I never said, "My girlfriend is going to help you move."
The only offer I made, was let me know and I'll see if it's possible.
I mean. What kind of answer does he expect? "Yeah, I'm on my way to help you"? "Come get my SUV."?
I offered the help, he had no reason to think she even knew about my offer.
My offer was, "I will ask my girlfriend", not, "You can use her car".
So I told the guy, "Hey, if you need help moving some big stuff LET ME KNOW and I'll try to borrow my GF's SUV." Last night I borrowed my cousin's Honda and helped him move until 1am.
Today he sent my GF a message on Facebook asking her whether or not he can borrow her SUV to move a mattress. She calls me up like, "hey what's going on, did you tell your friend to contact me?"I find this to be extremely rude when I told him to ask me.
Do you?
One of the things that make it rude to me, is that I was going to be the person coming to meet him and help him load his stuff etc. So for him to contact her as though she is going to go HELP HIM MOVE...I never said, "My girlfriend is going to help you move."
The only offer I made, was let me know and I'll see if it's possible.
I mean. What kind of answer does he expect? "Yeah, I'm on my way to help you"? "Come get my SUV."?
I offered the help, he had no reason to think she even knew about my offer.
My offer was, "I will ask my girlfriend", not, "You can use her car".