bellaloveee
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My friends have been giving me a hard time because, i get angry too fast. They told me that if i couldn't figure out how to stop causing drama, then they couldn't do it anymore.
I completely understand, i really do. I mean, no one wants to be around an 24/7 angry person. I most definitely can relate to that, my dad is always mad at about something, and it's annoying. Truth be told, i am JUST like him. Ahhh. I tried to tell them that, they don't get it. Their lives are perfect, they have perfect families, and get all their oppurtunities and wants handed to them...and i don't. Life has never been like that. But people think it, and it's not really like that.
So i've been trying, i've been working on stepping back, looking at the situation, taking a deep breath, and really picking and choosing my battles. I really have been, for about a month now. I have been doing really good!
Well, lately our group of friends has been spilting and i have lost touch with a lot of people, and it's just been falling apart. My mom is like 6 months pregnant or so, and her and my stepdad have been fighting like crazy. And last night, my mom and him got in a fight and she left. So i texted my friend, and told her i was trying to keep my cool and i was so mad at my stepdad. becuase...this lady is pregnant! What if she got in a car wreck? What would happen to the baby? Ugh. And you can't go through all that stress when you are pregnant! He's so dumb. So my friend was lke, ok chill and go take a shower and then go back down there and if your moms not home call her. My mom came home, and things got worked out.
Well today, i was telling my other friend about what happened and she goes, yah i know Katrina told me. And i was like WHAT? I mean okkkk....is it really her business to go telling my friend? I told her because i needed her help...and i just feel like i lost all trust in her..and this friend i was talking to...i have tried so hard to get back in touch and she has been treating me like CRAP! and i don't know. I am trying to figure out a calm solution...any help? I know that if i talk to her she will be like "BELLA ITS NOT A BIG DEAL GOSH!" so i'm stuck.
advice/ideas? thanks in advance!
I completely understand, i really do. I mean, no one wants to be around an 24/7 angry person. I most definitely can relate to that, my dad is always mad at about something, and it's annoying. Truth be told, i am JUST like him. Ahhh. I tried to tell them that, they don't get it. Their lives are perfect, they have perfect families, and get all their oppurtunities and wants handed to them...and i don't. Life has never been like that. But people think it, and it's not really like that.
So i've been trying, i've been working on stepping back, looking at the situation, taking a deep breath, and really picking and choosing my battles. I really have been, for about a month now. I have been doing really good!
Well, lately our group of friends has been spilting and i have lost touch with a lot of people, and it's just been falling apart. My mom is like 6 months pregnant or so, and her and my stepdad have been fighting like crazy. And last night, my mom and him got in a fight and she left. So i texted my friend, and told her i was trying to keep my cool and i was so mad at my stepdad. becuase...this lady is pregnant! What if she got in a car wreck? What would happen to the baby? Ugh. And you can't go through all that stress when you are pregnant! He's so dumb. So my friend was lke, ok chill and go take a shower and then go back down there and if your moms not home call her. My mom came home, and things got worked out.
Well today, i was telling my other friend about what happened and she goes, yah i know Katrina told me. And i was like WHAT? I mean okkkk....is it really her business to go telling my friend? I told her because i needed her help...and i just feel like i lost all trust in her..and this friend i was talking to...i have tried so hard to get back in touch and she has been treating me like CRAP! and i don't know. I am trying to figure out a calm solution...any help? I know that if i talk to her she will be like "BELLA ITS NOT A BIG DEAL GOSH!" so i'm stuck.
advice/ideas? thanks in advance!