My friend is sleeping around yet she complains of being lonely?

[Cancer1]

She's never going to find a man that loves her if she keeps letting men use her and putting herself in situations with married men and men that have babies on the way is just making her self esteem lower because she's not making herself first she's making herself second. Also I believe what goes around comes around, by her messing with men that she has been messing with is like her breaking up a happy home not saying that the men are innocent because they're not but if she knows their situation why go along with it. So her love life is not going well because she is in the middle of another woman's love life causing problems and hurt if the girlfriend or wife knows about it or finds out about it.

 

[mMayram]

She has been with a married man before but after a year of sleeping with him she said it was wrong so she didnt want to do it anymore this after the fact she partied with the guys wife and all, now she is being with another guy who isnt married and has a baby with his gf, she just got back from a atrip to las vegas with him and they shared a room, oh and shes also being with another guy who she just meets up for a booty call, she always comes complaining to me shes lonely and she wants a bf to give her the attenion and i have told her time after time she doesnt need to be with these guys cause theyre just using her for exactly that ,a bootycall, what should i tell her if she wants my advice again? what do you think ?
i try telling her all the time that she shouldnt be sleeping with these guys cause one they have a family and then their just using her and shes just hurting herself, idk what else to tell her its kind of frustrating cause she always complain shes lonely and wants a guy yet shes going by it all wrong

 

[ZBDblues]

She's looking at people who are serious about relationships and finds that attractive, so she gets involved with them. Then she realises what she is doing is wrong and not what she really wants, she wants a boyfriend of her own, not someone elses. Tell her to stop looking at men in relationships and to learn how to keep a guy interested in her. Otherwise she'll end up being nothing but a marriage wrecker, then end up with the opinion that all men are the same!

 

[t[[JeLLyBeAn]]t]

you should be honest with her. she does need to sleeping around cuz shes attracting the wrong type on men.

 

[Dylan]

well keep telling her the same thing, if she wants a steady relationship she need to stop being with the booty calls, but she with them because she is lonely, she thinks by having sex that she will get what she looking for, you need to help her see the truth

 

[Mel]

tell her to try messin with someone that is single and lookin for a relationship not a booty call.

 

[Europeanwomenaresohot]

tell her to spread some love my way, ill be happy to use her like everyone else.

All honesty though of course she is guna be lonely, she is sleeping with married guys, guys with gf's and a baby. or a Bootycall.

Next time she asks for advice you should tell her she won't find a guy just sleeping around with them all. Maybe you know, get to know them? And tell her to go for single men that might help. Sounds like the only thing shes good at is spreading her legs, she needs a new hobby cause she won't find a guy who will stick around that way.