I moved home 3 years ago and hit it off with my now best friend because we were both going through tough times and her life seemed busy and exciting...we partied alot and had a lot in common but there was always this weird thing with her. She's been really tramatized in life with her parents gone and i can't relate so some times when she brings it up (happened like 3 years ago)I try to be consoling but she uses that for everything!!!! everywhere we go and meet new people she brings the pitty then people just flank to her and I'm like WTF!
Thats what started it all. Then she has all these other friends she absolutely loves but because we were in a car accident (that she was driving and didn't want to be where we were so we drove away) she says they hate me......I'V NEVER MET THEM! ugg so frustrating i wanted to be a part of her life and this shit.
I've brought her into my family and they unofficially adopted her as my other sister and their other daughter but her stories all seem like lies and over indulged to the point where your like ya right come off it already (even my parents agree!)(my parents think she's controlling cause she knows my every move and calls me on my days off to be with her 24/7 i can't get away cause she makes me feel bad) but then we know she's troubled and we let it pass. Lots of people have called her on it for years and she turns around to the pitty party again! Now i've made friends along the way and very graciously invited her out to hang and meet new people and of course she becomes a saint because she bends over backwards for people and they know she overendulges but she steals them away from me cause she doesn't work full time so she is always calling them and with them and bragging about it to me while i'm at work....urgg!
I don't know what to do! She goes through mood swings of "ohh i'm sad and i'm gonna take it out on you" i get sad! i stay home alone and work it out i don't spread it!
I'm at my ends! I want to get out! but she's everywhere! And when i get like this and take a personal break she turns into a saint and calls offering me everything, to be my slave,come over give me a hug go out of her way to make me happy....it's like wiplash! I'm so confused!! I'm I the only one going through this!?
Thats what started it all. Then she has all these other friends she absolutely loves but because we were in a car accident (that she was driving and didn't want to be where we were so we drove away) she says they hate me......I'V NEVER MET THEM! ugg so frustrating i wanted to be a part of her life and this shit.
I've brought her into my family and they unofficially adopted her as my other sister and their other daughter but her stories all seem like lies and over indulged to the point where your like ya right come off it already (even my parents agree!)(my parents think she's controlling cause she knows my every move and calls me on my days off to be with her 24/7 i can't get away cause she makes me feel bad) but then we know she's troubled and we let it pass. Lots of people have called her on it for years and she turns around to the pitty party again! Now i've made friends along the way and very graciously invited her out to hang and meet new people and of course she becomes a saint because she bends over backwards for people and they know she overendulges but she steals them away from me cause she doesn't work full time so she is always calling them and with them and bragging about it to me while i'm at work....urgg!
I don't know what to do! She goes through mood swings of "ohh i'm sad and i'm gonna take it out on you" i get sad! i stay home alone and work it out i don't spread it!
I'm at my ends! I want to get out! but she's everywhere! And when i get like this and take a personal break she turns into a saint and calls offering me everything, to be my slave,come over give me a hug go out of her way to make me happy....it's like wiplash! I'm so confused!! I'm I the only one going through this!?